The best medicine for hard times is positive reassurance. Be mindful of who you “vent” to-are they trying to bring you out of your sadness or are they feeding it?
It’s not so much about regret-wisdom is most important, although I have to say that remorse is an essential part of the equation.
Yes…..You get back what you put out, but there has to be an exception for ignorance.
Everything happens in just the right timing. Slow down-relax-and go with the flow. Our destiny is a masterpiece created by a higher power. I highly doubt that our level of appreciation would be the same without the journey.
If your words are not intended to encourage or bring some level of positivity to someone’s life-just shut the fuck up and keep it moving. No one likes or appreciates the opinions of those who get a great deal of satisfaction in kicking people while they’re down.
We all have journeys and no two journeys are the same. We sometimes get caught up in comparing our experiences with the experiences of others. Yes we all experience death, heartache, and a host of other things, but we don’t “experience” them the same. We’re all wired differently, so we don’t get to determine what another person’s response/reaction should be to whatever is going on in their lives. Too many people have judgmental spirits and the bottom line is…”that’s not cool”. Let people live their lives and you go ahead and live yours. The next time you find yourself speaking about someone in a negative light, especially in regards to things that have nothing to do with you. Think really hard. Trust me you’ll find more valuable use for that time. I’ve never met anyone with a perfect life and even perfection requires maintenance.