We all have journeys and no two journeys are the same. We sometimes get caught up in comparing our experiences with the experiences of others. Yes we all experience death, heartache, and a host of other things, but we don’t “experience” them the same. We’re all wired differently, so we don’t get to determine what another person’s response/reaction should be to whatever is going on in their lives. Too many people have judgmental spirits and the bottom line is…”that’s not cool”. Let people live their lives and you go ahead and live yours. The next time you find yourself speaking about someone in a negative light, especially in regards to things that have nothing to do with you. Think really hard. Trust me you’ll find more valuable use for that time. I’ve never met anyone with a perfect life and even perfection requires maintenance.